When a year starts to come to an end, it’s the time to slow down, reflect on how the year has been, and think a little about how you would like the coming year to be.

“But I didn’t do anything wrong!” “Why do you have to react like this to everything?!” “I did it because you said….” “I didn’t do anything wrong. You’re the one getting it wrong!” “It’s all because of you!”

Two people meet, fall in love, get into a relationship, and then walk hand-in-hand toward a happily ever after. Isn’t this what we all envision for our romantic relationships? But is this even possible? In a dreamy world, yes. In the real world, no.

Are there days when you wake up feeling heavy? Perhaps, a little dazed, lost, and confused, and you want to shut the world out, stay in, and just breathe.

If you’ve been reading my work, then you know I’m a big fan of quotes. As usual, I was looking for a quote that would go well with this article and ended up reading one that said

Many of us think that we can only be valued and worthy if we are loved. As human beings, we’re in the constant pursuit of finding people who can make us feel loved, appreciated, and valued.